The Misfits Find A Place In The Blogosphere

Ron is a great writer. He’s on about a kajillion blogs right now and he waxes philosophical on this beat of blogging.

Bloggers are vain.

Maybe we’re not physically vain, though I know some bloggers are. What we are is emotionally vain. Not to generalize or anything (he says right before launching into a series of broad generalizations), but we’re a lot of misfits. Basically, there’s no such thing as a normal blogger who doesn’t do it for pay alone. Hell, even those that do it for pay are probably weird, too. We’re overworked young professionals. We’re mothers stuck indoors with the kids all day who need to speak to someone on an adult level. We’re geeks, dorks, and dweebs who hide behind websites or nom de blog or the general anonymity of the Internet to reach out to other people in a safe manner without all the fear that comes with meeting someone face to face.

It’s a lot easier to relax and be yourself online (or be a totally fake person, but if you try that kind of thing you’ll generally get found out one way or another). You don’t have to worry about the fact that you need a shave, or that you’ve got popcorn husks in your teeth, or that you’re a 450lb albino balding midget. Nobody’s judging you for how you look, or how you’re dressed, or how much money you make. It’s all about how well you write, the links you find, and the connections you make with other bloggers with your personality.

The whole post is amazing and if you want to see someone break it down on why bloggers blog, this is your best bet today.

UPDATED: Aunt B. is talking about this as well this morning. As I’m still going through post-election blogging uncertainty and a blogging mini-identity crisis, the best thing I can add to her post is our words on the Internet, we want them to please others but in the end, they have to please us as individuals as well.

The Internet is a fickle bitch. As Ron articulated and as Aunt B. did as well, you have to have some real about yourself or people won’t come by to visit. I’ll never forget having lunch with Huck a couple of years ago and the man with him, his name escapes me, said he likes to read blogs where it’s not just one thing. That he wants to feel a connection with the writer. He also said that if political blogging is your thing, it’s best to feel like there is a real person behind it. I’ve taken this sage words of advice to heart. I figure that you guys come here because you choose to.

And I’m grateful to each and every one of you for being a part of Newscoma. It’s a wonderful bond as there are times I feel completely geographically challenged but the Internet and bloggers has opened the world to me. It’s important for me on a personal level. Yes, I do this for me. But also, yes, I like the connection of feeling a part of something bigger than myself.

Wow, deep this morning.

4 Responses to “The Misfits Find A Place In The Blogosphere”

  1. Ron says:

    Whoo! A link! You love me!!! I feel accepted and e-hugged now! :)

  2. newscoma says:

    You know I love you, dear! ;)

  3. saraclark says:

    I don’t think I’ve ever thought it out enough to put it into words, but “emotionally vain” is one of the best definitions of blogging ever. And even more for Twittering.

    Tag, I’m it. I admit to it.

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